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1．The Mundane Is Heroic 　伟大的平凡 2

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2．See Possibilities Where Others See Obstacles 在障碍中发现机会 4

3．Set Rules for Conflict 冲突也要有规则 6

4．Anyone Can Find a Happy Relationship　 每个人都能找到自己的另一半 8

5．It's Not How Hard You Try　 与如何努力无关 10

6．You Have Nothing to Envy 　一点也不嫉妒你 12

7．Attitude Triumphs over Outcome 态度胜于结果 14

8．Don't Be Bound by Tradition 16

9．The Past Is Not the Futu re 18

10．No One Wins the Comparison Game 20

11．See the Love Around You 22

12．Doing Nothing Is Rarely a Solution 24

13．You'll Forget the Disagreement but Remember the Disagreeing 26

14．Pursue What You Need Forever,Not What You Want Today 28

15．Seek Harmony in Your Life 30

16．The Relationship Test:Are You Lonely 32

17．It's the Little Things That Matter the Most 34

18．A Relationship Requires Two Equals 36

19．Beware of Fairy Tales 38

20．Cultivate a Common Interest 40

21．Treat the Disease,Not the Symptom 42

22．There's No Point in Putting On a Show  44

23．You Make Your Own History 46

24．Maintain You r Sense of Control 48

25．Money Can't Buy Love,but It Can Buy Stress 50

26．There Are No Mind Readers 52

27．There's No Need to Hurry 54

28．Firends Speak from Experience—Their Own 56

29．Drink Less 58

30．Decide Whether You Want to Win or Be Happy 60

31．A Sense of Humor Helps 62

32．Think Beyond the Engagement 64

33．See the Friendship in Your Relationship 66

34．The Most Time Is Not the Best Time 68

35．Reduce TV Time 70

36．The World Will Intrude on Your Relationship  72

37．Gentlemen Prefer the Same Things Ladies Prefer 74

38．Love Is Blind but Life Isn't Always 76

39．Balance Depends on Which Way You Lean 78

40．A Relationship by Any Other Name Is Just as Important 80

41．The Future Matters More than the Past 82

42．You Don't Have to See Eye to Eye on Everything 84

43．Be Open with Each Other  86

44．Accentuate the Positive in All Aspects of Your Life 88

45．It Helps to Be Friends 90

46．Foundations Are Created in the Beginning 92

47．Ambivalence Is a Negative 94

48．Share Housework 96

49．A Relationship Starts with Yourself 98

50．Let Go of the Burden of Pain 100

51．Develop a Healthy Calm 102

52．Think of Your Own Ideal 104

53．Stay Flexible 106

54．Think About Potential 108

55．Even in a Relationship,You Are Still an Individual 110

56．Rest Up—This Is Going to Take Some Effort 112

57．Like the Way You Look 114

58．Don't Romanticize the Past 116

59．Share the Praise and Share in the Blame 118

60．You Can't Find Without Looking 120

61．Meaningful Commitment Is Mutual Commitment 122

62．Friendships Predict Relationships 124

63．Prepare for Milestones 126

64．Don't Bring Your Job Home with You 128

65．We Assume Similar Preferences 130

66．Don't Let Secrets Eat You Up 132

67．To Find a Better Way,Look Where You've Been 134

68．Money Matters Less over Time 136

69．Recognize the Value of Shared Values 138

70．Understand What You're Looking for 140

71．Everyone Has the Merit of His Own 142

72．You'll Need Some Relationship Friends 144

73．Don't Wait to Start Moving in the Right Direction 146

74．Music Can Bring Us Together 148

75．Define What You Need 150

76．Show You Care,Even When It's Hard to 152

77．Make Your Decisions for Positive Reasons 154

78．A Relationship Is Built on a Foundation of Support 156

79．The Pieces of You r Life Must Fit Together 158

80．Master Your Fears 160

81．We Are All Much More Alike than Different 162

82．Limit Your Interest in the Past 164

83．Get Your Reality from Reality 166

84．You Are Never Too Old to Find Love 168

85．We Look Inward to See How People Feel about Us 170

86．Be Willing to Evolve 172

87．Connect,See You're Capable,and Know You Count 174

88．Reliability Counts a Lot 176

89．You Are Complete by Yourself 178

90．Intensity Fades 180

91．Beware Second Opinions 182

92．Have Faith but Don't Forget Reality 184

93．Pay Attention 186

94．Nice People Don't Finish Last 188

95．Relationships Are like Modern Art 190

96．It's Not Easy,Even if It Looks Is 192

97．Most People Are Looking for Experienced Rookies 194

98．It's for You—or It Isn't 196

99．See the Horizon,Watch Your Step 198

100．The Search for Perfection Is Endless 200