心灵咖啡 使你成为处处受欢迎的人PDF电子书下载
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- 作 者:(美)戴尔·卡耐基著;钟丽平等译
- 出 版 社:上海:学林出版社
- 出版年份:2002
- ISBN:7806683143
- 页数:253 页
导言 Preface 1
一、怎样待人处世? How to get along with people? 5
切记1:批评只会使人增加一层防御心 Criticism can put others on guard against you 5
切记2:人人愿意被他人重视 No one wants to be neglected 12
切记3:你必须站在别人的立场上看待事物 Look at things in other people s shoes 20
二、让人们喜欢你的绝招 Secrets to have yourself liked by others 32
绝招1:让对方处于中心地位 Put him or her in the center 32
绝招2:让你的微笑给对方留下深刻印象 Impress him or her with your smile 40
绝招3:请记住对方的姓名 Make sure you remember his or her name 44
绝招4:培养优雅和幽默 Cultivate elegance and humor 50
绝招5:多谈谈对方最感兴趣的事 Talk about what interests him or her 58
绝招6:美言一句胜三春 Say something nice about him or her 60
三、怎样使人赞同你的意见? How to persuade people to agree with you? 67
1:不要固执已见 Don t be too stubborn about your own ideas 67
2:避免与他人结怨 Don t make enemy with anyone 72
3:勇于认错的人是最勇敢的 Be brave to admit your mistakes 79
4:找出两人间的距离才是最聪明的 It s wise to find out the difference 84
5:试图说服对方Try to persuade him or her 91
6:应该真心地去面对抱怨者 Face complaint heartily 95
7:与他人作一次精神上的沟通 Have spiritual communication with him or her 100
8:多采纳别人的意见 Be good at absorbing the opinions of others 104
9:应该同情他人 Be sympathetic with others 109
10:好的动机要引人注意 Tell your good intention to others 112
11:力量来自努力不懈 Strength comes from constant effort 117
12:试试激将法 Try plodding him or her into action 120
四、改变别人对你的看法的对策 Approaches to change others opinion on you 123
第一种对策:先礼后兵 Giving warning first before taking actions 123
第二种对策:旁敲侧击 Making oblique references 128
第三种对策:批评人之前先自我批评Making self-criticism before criticizing others 130
第四种对策:用问题替代命令 Asking questions instead of giving orders 133
第五种对策:打人莫打脸 Hitting no one on the face 135
第六种对策:批评的同时也应看到成绩 Criticizing a person withour neglecting his merits 138
第七种对策:看出对方隐藏的美德 Seeing other people s hidden virtues 142
第八种对策:以鼓励替代责备 Giving encouragement instead of reproaches 144
第九种对策:善于利用他人的缺点 Making use of the shortcomings of others 147
五、信札的奇迹 Miracles of letters 151
六、维持婚姻美满的七大规则 Seven rulus to maintain a satisfactory marriage 157
第一项规则:切莫喋喋不休 Never nagging 157
第二项规则:别尝试改造对方 Never try to change the other side 162
第三项规则:容忍 Be tolerant 165
第四项规则:偶尔泰承一番 Give some occasional praise 168
第五项规则:耍一点小花招 Make some clever tricks 171
第六项规则:礼多人不怪 Give some gifts when necessary 173
第七项规则:应了解一些“性” Know something about sex 176
七、怎样永远保持身心健康快乐? Stay physically fit snd mentally happy? 180
第一要诀:知己知彼方能熟视无睹 Know yourself as well as others 180
第二要诀:思想能主宰命运 Ideas may dominant your fate 183
第三要诀:精神产生伟大力量 Spirit may produce great power 187
第四要诀:克服忧惧 Overcome worry and fear 195
第五要诀:不可轻易动怒 Don t get mad easily 198
第六要诀:对于困境潇洒地付之一笑 Smile at difficulties 204
第七要诀:培养恬静的心情 Foster a calm mood 209
第八要诀:以自信抗拒消极 Resist passiveness with self-confidence 213
第九要诀:让你成为一块磁石 Make yourself a magnet 218
第十要诀:思想的影响力 The influence of ideology 221
第十一要诀:永不动摇的信仰 Rock-firm faith 226
八、怎样创造光明的前途? How to create a bright future? 233
踢开阻碍你前进的绊脚石 Kick away the stumbling block 233
追求金钱更能弥补人格缺陷 Pursue money to make up for your charcater defect 235
成功挖掘自己潜在的本领 Find your latent 238
不放弃克服困难的钥匙--自恃 Never give up the key to overcome difficulties--be proud of yourself 240
祈望 Never give up hope 243
业精于勤荒于嬉 Success comes with diligence 248
富裕是你天赋的权利 Getting rich is the right of your gift 250
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