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  • 作 者:(美)戴尔·卡耐基著;钟丽平等译
  • 出 版 社:上海:学林出版社
  • 出版年份:2002
  • ISBN:7806683143
  • 页数:253 页
图书介绍:本书包括怎样待人处世?让人们喜欢你的绝招,怎样使人赞同你的意见?改变别人对你的看法的对策,维持婚姻美满的七大法则,怎样永远保持身心健康快乐?等内容。
《心灵咖啡 使你成为处处受欢迎的人》目录

导言 Preface 1

一、怎样待人处世? How to get along with people? 5

切记1:批评只会使人增加一层防御心 Criticism can put others on guard against you 5

切记2:人人愿意被他人重视 No one wants to be neglected 12

切记3:你必须站在别人的立场上看待事物 Look at things in other people s shoes 20

二、让人们喜欢你的绝招 Secrets to have yourself liked by others 32

绝招1:让对方处于中心地位 Put him or her in the center 32

绝招2:让你的微笑给对方留下深刻印象 Impress him or her with your smile 40

绝招3:请记住对方的姓名 Make sure you remember his or her name 44

绝招4:培养优雅和幽默 Cultivate elegance and humor 50

绝招5:多谈谈对方最感兴趣的事 Talk about what interests him or her 58

绝招6:美言一句胜三春 Say something nice about him or her 60

三、怎样使人赞同你的意见? How to persuade people to agree with you? 67

1:不要固执已见 Don t be too stubborn about your own ideas 67

2:避免与他人结怨 Don t make enemy with anyone 72

3:勇于认错的人是最勇敢的 Be brave to admit your mistakes 79

4:找出两人间的距离才是最聪明的 It s wise to find out the difference 84

5:试图说服对方Try to persuade him or her 91

6:应该真心地去面对抱怨者 Face complaint heartily 95

7:与他人作一次精神上的沟通 Have spiritual communication with him or her 100

8:多采纳别人的意见 Be good at absorbing the opinions of others 104

9:应该同情他人 Be sympathetic with others 109

10:好的动机要引人注意 Tell your good intention to others 112

11:力量来自努力不懈 Strength comes from constant effort 117

12:试试激将法 Try plodding him or her into action 120

四、改变别人对你的看法的对策 Approaches to change others opinion on you 123

第一种对策:先礼后兵 Giving warning first before taking actions 123

第二种对策:旁敲侧击 Making oblique references 128

第三种对策:批评人之前先自我批评Making self-criticism before criticizing others 130

第四种对策:用问题替代命令 Asking questions instead of giving orders 133

第五种对策:打人莫打脸 Hitting no one on the face 135

第六种对策:批评的同时也应看到成绩 Criticizing a person withour neglecting his merits 138

第七种对策:看出对方隐藏的美德 Seeing other people s hidden virtues 142

第八种对策:以鼓励替代责备 Giving encouragement instead of reproaches 144

第九种对策:善于利用他人的缺点 Making use of the shortcomings of others 147

五、信札的奇迹 Miracles of letters 151

六、维持婚姻美满的七大规则 Seven rulus to maintain a satisfactory marriage 157

第一项规则:切莫喋喋不休 Never nagging 157

第二项规则:别尝试改造对方 Never try to change the other side 162

第三项规则:容忍 Be tolerant 165

第四项规则:偶尔泰承一番 Give some occasional praise 168

第五项规则:耍一点小花招 Make some clever tricks 171

第六项规则:礼多人不怪 Give some gifts when necessary 173

第七项规则:应了解一些“性” Know something about sex 176

七、怎样永远保持身心健康快乐? Stay physically fit snd mentally happy? 180

第一要诀:知己知彼方能熟视无睹 Know yourself as well as others 180

第二要诀:思想能主宰命运 Ideas may dominant your fate 183

第三要诀:精神产生伟大力量 Spirit may produce great power 187

第四要诀:克服忧惧 Overcome worry and fear 195

第五要诀:不可轻易动怒 Don t get mad easily 198

第六要诀:对于困境潇洒地付之一笑 Smile at difficulties 204

第七要诀:培养恬静的心情 Foster a calm mood 209

第八要诀:以自信抗拒消极 Resist passiveness with self-confidence 213

第九要诀:让你成为一块磁石 Make yourself a magnet 218

第十要诀:思想的影响力 The influence of ideology 221

第十一要诀:永不动摇的信仰 Rock-firm faith 226

八、怎样创造光明的前途? How to create a bright future? 233

踢开阻碍你前进的绊脚石 Kick away the stumbling block 233

追求金钱更能弥补人格缺陷 Pursue money to make up for your charcater defect 235

成功挖掘自己潜在的本领 Find your latent 238

不放弃克服困难的钥匙--自恃 Never give up the key to overcome difficulties--be proud of yourself 240

祈望 Never give up hope 243

业精于勤荒于嬉 Success comes with diligence 248

富裕是你天赋的权利 Getting rich is the right of your gift 250

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